Helpers have frustration tolerance issues too. Helpers in order to truly help should only work as hard as those who are quitting work to quit!
So though I have been meeting weekly with my friend who says she is trying to quit...i felt that I was working harder and being more conscientious then she was...evidenced by 3 + months of talking about the first goal to smoke no more than 10 cigs per day to no avail...not once could she make 7 days straight with only 7 cigs...with no good reasons, just a little sloppy, careless, lack of focus mostly on the weekends????
so...
i made the decision to withdraw my help for now and not meet again until this goal is reached!
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